Is it Redeemable? An Intentional Look at Halloween

fearless influence Oct 30, 2019

Because of the roots of Halloween, my family doesn't celebrate Halloween. 

I'm not telling you what to do. I'm telling you what I do and why so you can get to know me a little better.

Halloween has very, very dark roots. I believe there is still very dark stuff that happens around Halloween because there are people who take it seriously from where the roots come from. 

When I look at traditions I ask, What do they teach us? What do they have to say? How does this glorify God?

If something can be redeemed, I’m all for it.

What do I mean by redeemed?

Here are a couple of examples

Carving pumpkins 

We carved pumpkins. Of course, we did it at this time of year because that's when there are pumpkins around. We used the story of The Pumpkin Patch Parable, by Liz Curtis Higgs. It’s a super cute book about how God chooses us like we choose a pumpkin. First He has to open us up and clean all that gunk out of the inside. And then He places His light inside to shine...

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Run into the Storm

fearless overcoming rest Sep 05, 2019
We're called to soar. We're called to live above our circumstances.
 
I was listening to Broken Walls at the Alaska State Fair. Jonathan Maracle, a Mohawk Indian, shared how they teach to be like the eagle. In a storm every other animal goes and hunkers down to wait out the storm. An eagle flies into the storm. By flying into the storm, it can catch the updrafts and be carried up above the storm.
 

How do we run into the storm? How do we catch the updraft?

 
If you have a strong, negative emotional response to the idea of doing something, do it.
 
It may be a hard conversation, starting a new relationship, trying a new skill or investing in yourself.
 
My most recent experience is investing in myself. There is a coaching training in Florida in November. I didn’t even allow myself to consider going at first. Even though I told myself no I kept wondering, “What if?”
 
As I did thoughts like, “I...
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Do It Scared - How to Look Brave

fearless hearing god prayer Apr 04, 2019

Have you heard the way to look brave is to “do it scared”?

That’s what I’m doing! Stepping out and saying yes to God’s challenge to me.

God has been challenging me to share how He is transforming me. I share tools and practical ways to walk out the freedom Jesus bought for us by His death and resurrection. The first step is learning to hear God’s voice for yourself.

I created an online course called Transformational Quiet Times: Learn the Power of Conversational Prayer. Here’s the introduction.

Do you know God wants to talk to you? Do you know He has answers to your questions? He has good things to say?

He does and you can learn to hear from Him for yourself.

He desires a relationship with you. A good relationship requires good communication.

I have learned over the years, through various teachers, books, and lots of practice; that God wants to talk to me just like He wants to talk to you. I would love for you to join me in ...

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3 Ways Your Mistakes Bless Your Children

Do you struggle with wanting to be prefect? To do everything right?

I do! Especially when it comes to my kids. I mean, why should they have to suffer because I’m their mom and I’m not perfect?

Making mistakes is inevitable. So, it’s not the making of mistakes that is the issue. It’s what I do with my mistakes that has the biggest impact on my children.

I serve the God who specializes in bringing beauty from ashes. God showed me He wanted to use my mistakes to bless my children, too.

Awesome! Right?

My mistakes bless my children when I model repentance and reconciliation.

Whether I hurt my child, or they know I hurt someone else, they can benefit if they also see me clean up my mess.

I can make a full apology, “I’m sorry” doesn’t cut it.

  • I need to explain why what I did was wrong.
  • I need to make an educated guess about how my choice affected them and listen to their feedback.
  • Then I can say I’m sorry. Still not done,...
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The Table is Set

When one of those who reclined at table with him heard these things, he said to him, “Blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!”    Luke 14:15 ESV

I started with there’s no fear at the table. Then I wanted to look at what's on the table but really got distracted by what the table was. This time I’m exploring what is set on our table.

The first thing God brought to my mind is the fruit of the spirit.  

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.   Galatians 5:22-23 ESV

All this fruit is set before us. It’s ours.

He has been challenging me not to ask for peace or self-control. He has already set them before me on the table and within me by His Spirit. I need to cultivate them and let them out. He can’t give me more but He can teach me...

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What’s on the Table?

Since I wrote No Fear at the Table I have been meditating about what is on the table.

First, what is the table?

A banqueting table (Song of Solomon 2:4). A table set in the presence of my enemies (Psalm 23:5)!. A Passover table (Exodus 12). A Communion table (Matthew 26:26-28). The prelude of the table at the celebration feast of the wedding of the Lamb and His Bride, the church (Revelation 19:9).

What does it mean for it to be all these things? I’m not doing a deep theological study. These are my prayerful thoughts and what God is revealing to me as I listen and read His word.

Banqueting Table

A banqueting table is lavish, above and beyond. And it’s not just a banqueting table it’s a king’s, The King’s, banquet table. More than enough. Nicer than it “needs” to be. Everything about it is extraordinary. The quality, presentation – everything.

A Table in the Midst of Enemies

He sets this table for me right in front of...

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No Fear at the Table

“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.”


1 John 4:18 KJV

I always felt condemnation when I heard that verse.

I thought it should be comforting and reassuring so I felt even more condemned.

I experience fear, therefore, I don’t have perfect love. There must be something wrong with me because I still experience fear.

Last week this verse hit me in a new way.

Jesus is perfect love and in His presence, there is no fear. It was so comforting. I don’t need to get to a point where I have no fear. Maybe that’s not humanly possible. But I don’t have to. I just come back to love. I come back to the person of love.

In His presence, fear subsides.

I rested in that for a couple of days. On Sunday during worship, the songs came together to solidify the revelation. One line from a song says “Fear doesn’t stand a chance when I stand in Your...

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